“Crossdressing isn’t about passing as a female; it’s about loving every part of who you are.”
Welcome to my blog about crossdressing, feminine lifestyle, fashion, makeup, and real-life experiences.
This site is created to share practical crossdressing advice, makeup tutorials, feminine style tips, and personal insights for anyone exploring their feminine side or learning how to be more female.
Here you will find guides on:
- crossdressing tips for beginners and mature crossdressers
- feminine clothing and outfit ideas
- makeup tutorials and beauty advice
- nails, hair, and personal grooming for a feminine look
- confidence, self-expression, and real-life experiences
Whether you are just starting your crossdressing journey or looking to improve your female look, this blog provides clear, practical, and experience-based advice.
Everyone is welcome here, regardless of experience level. The goal is to help you feel confident, comfortable, and authentic while exploring femininity in your own way.
About me - Aveline Marlowe
Hi, I’m Aveline.
I’m a crossdressing and feminine lifestyle blogger, sharing my personal journey, experiences, and advice around crossdressing, feminine expression, and exploring identity.
This blog is called “Girl By Choice, Not By Accident”
a personal space where I express my feminine side and document what it means to live as a male with a connection to femininity.
For over 20 years, I’ve been exploring femininity in my own way
learning what it means to me, why I love it, and how it shapes my confidence, style, and self-expression.
I work in PR in the City of London, where I enjoy connecting with people professionally, while also embracing my creative and feminine side in my personal life.
In 2026, I set myself a goal: to create a crossdressing blog where I could share my journey openly, reflect on real-life experiences, and connect with others who are exploring similar paths.
This space is exactly that
A personal blog about crossdressing, feminine lifestyle, fashion, beauty, and self-expression.
Here you’ll find:
- crossdressing experiences and personal stories
- feminine lifestyle reflections
- fashion and styling inspiration
- confidence and self-expression advice
- thoughts on embracing femininity as part of identity
I believe there is nothing wrong with a man expressing his feminine side
In fact, it can be empowering, creative, and deeply fulfilling.
This blog exists to share that perspective the way it should be openly and honestly.
What I Write About
Crossdressing – I share my thoughts, and any lessons I have learned from my personal crossdressing journey.
Beauty & Makeup – Tips, tutorials, and favourite products for crossdressers.
Fashion & Wardrobe – Styling advice, outfit inspiration, and wardrobe essentials.
Community & Support – Welcome to a safe space to connect, comment, and learn from others.
Girl Power – Confidence, self-love, and being a girl.
Female Lifestyle & Fun – Food, fitness, and everyday life through a creative, feminine lens.
Recent Blog Posts
What is Crossdressing anyways?
Is crossdressing even normal?
Am I normal for doing it?
Is crossdressing unhealthy?
Am I transgender?
what does this all mean ?
If you’re here, you’re probably feeling a mix of curiosity, excitement, and maybe even confusion.
In this guide, I’ll show you exactly how to start crossdressing, based on my own experience
what to buy, how to begin, and what no one really tells you at the start.
My real life experience buying Primark activewear as a crossdresser. Tips, sizing advice, and what I learned from my first shopping trip.
We were sitting in the living room when Alisha noticed how often I was texting Sarah.
“Who is she?” she asked, her tone sharp with suspicion.
“A friend,” I replied. “We’ve known each other since high school.”
“Men don’t have female friends,” she shot back.
Community Support
If you need extra support, these organisations provide confidential help for crossdressers, trans people, and the LGBTQ+ community:
Beaumont Society – support groups & helpline.
Mermaids – support for transgender and gender-diverse children.
MindOut – mental health services for LGBTQ+ people.
Samaritans – 24/7 confidential support.
Pink Therapy – therapists specialising in LGBTQ+ support.