“Crossdressing isn’t about passing as a female; it’s about loving every part of who you are.”
This is my blog about crossdressing, female lifestyle, style, makeup, and my real-life experiences.
I share honest advice, detailed guides, and practical tips for anyone exploring their female side.
Everyone is welcome here
I write about honest experiences and give practical advice about what I love.
Clothes, Nails, Makeup, Hair and Crossdressing of course.
Who is Aveline Marlowe
Hi, I’m Aveline.
I’m a crossdressing and female lifestyle blogger,
This is Girl By Choice, Not By Accident my space to be open, honest, and above all else be myself.
For over 20 years, I’ve been exploring and understanding my connection to femininity
Why I love it and what it means to me, and how it shapes who I am.
I work in PR in the City of London. I love connecting with people just as much as I love expressing my feminine creative side.
In 2026, I set myself a goal:
To create a space where I could share my journey, reflect on my experiences, and connect with other girls just like me.
This is that space.
My little corner of the internet.
There is nothing wrong with a man expressing himself as a woman.
In fact, it feels amazing.
Why should women have all the fun?
What I Blog About
Crossdressing – I share my thoughts, and any lessons I have learned from my personal crossdressing journey.
Beauty & Makeup – Tips, tutorials, and favourite products for crossdressers.
Fashion & Wardrobe – Styling advice, outfit inspiration, and wardrobe essentials.
Community & Support – Welcome to a safe space to connect, comment, and learn from others.
Girl Power – Confidence, self-love, and being a girl.
Female Lifestyle & Fun – Food, fitness, and everyday life through a creative, feminine lens.
Recent Blog Posts
If you’re here, you’re probably feeling a mix of curiosity, excitement, and maybe even confusion.
In this guide, I’ll show you exactly how to start crossdressing, based on my own experience
what to buy, how to begin, and what no one really tells you at the start.
My honest experience buying Primark activewear as a crossdresser. Tips, sizing advice, and what I learned from my first shopping trip.
We were sitting in the living room when Alisha noticed how often I was texting Sarah.
“Who is she?” she asked, her tone sharp with suspicion.
“A friend,” I replied. “We’ve known each other since high school.”
“Men don’t have female friends,” she shot back.
Support
If you need extra support, these organisations provide confidential help for crossdressers, trans people, and the LGBTQ+ community:
Beaumont Society – support groups & helpline.
Mermaids – support for transgender and gender-diverse children.
MindOut – mental health services for LGBTQ+ people.
Samaritans – 24/7 confidential support.
Pink Therapy – therapists specialising in LGBTQ+ support.